Can a divorce be mediated?

02 February 2026 ,  Crystelle Neethling 106

Yes, many divorces can be resolved through mediation, providing a cost-effective and less adversarial alternative to litigation.

Divorce mediation is a voluntary process in which an independent mediator assists spouses in reaching an agreement on issues arising from their divorce. The mediator facilitates discussion but does not make decisions. Mediation can take place before or during divorce proceedings.

Mediation is encouraged by our courts, particularly where minor children are involved. The Children’s Act 38 of 2005 promotes mediation in disputes relating to parental responsibilities and rights.

Most divorce-related issues can be mediated, including:

  • Division of assets and liabilities
  • Spousal and child maintenance
  • Care and contact arrangements
  • Parental responsibilities and parenting plans

Any agreement reached must be lawful and, where children are involved, in their best interests.

If mediation is successful, the agreement is reduced to writing in a settlement agreement and made an order of court upon divorce, rendering it legally binding. If mediation fails, either party may proceed with litigation leaving it up to the court to decide.

Mediation offers several advantages, including:

  • Reduced legal costs
  • Faster resolution
  • Less conflict
  • Child-focused outcomes

Mediation is an effective and practical option for many divorcing couples We can assist clients in assessing whether mediation is appropriate and in protecting their legal rights throughout the divorce process.

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